There has been so much chatting on Facebook this week about moms . About how one way of parenting is better versus another .
What I believe :
Does that mean if you choose to spank your kid will I not be friends with you ?
NO but at the same time I would hope that you would hear my opinion and read the research about the topic.
Just because I choose not to vaccinate doesn't mean it makes a difference to me if you do .
I am struggling with people who are only willing to look at it one sided. I hope that mothers can understand that no matter the differences in Parenting styles we are all mothers . We are all striving to do the best we can and we all at time feel alone .
I know personally with Riaan being a spirited child I have lost and gained friends . I have struggled at moments and what to do , what choices will be best for him and just trying to stay calm.
The fact is...if more mothers didn't feel alone in there journey of parenting , of loss, of adoption and of having a special needs child they could reach out more . Mothers can be so judgmental to what they don't know, don't understand or don't agree with .
Have you reached out to another mom today ? You could make someones day by just simply sending a thoughtful thought to them .
I want to end on a thought about the family bed.
The family bed fosters strong relationships. For mothers or fathers who work all day, this may be the only time they get to have physical “cuddle time” with their child. And, once again, the family bed facilitates the breastfeeding relationship, which fosters important, healthful bonds that set the stage for healthy, functional relationships later in life. But recently it has shown that it strengthens the relationship between siblings. In the picture below Riaan found his way to his sister and slept right next to her for the next 2 hours .